[Personal Sharing] I don't speak doesn't mean I'm stupid

" I don't speak doesn't mean I'm stupid " I believe that this is a very common quote among the Chinese.



The quote is simple to understand, but difficult to implement it in our life. This is especially important when you are interacting with someone.



When someone is speaking, the content may not be the 100% true and not that really important, you can choose to decline what he says and correct him or not. Yet, correcting other persons' mistake in a good manner is another story, which it is actually requires some skills in order to avoid conflict. Not declining guarantees peace between you and the speaker. If what he says is still acceptable, better don't decline it. You probably don't want to take risk even you are good in interacting with others.



However, if the false message, or so called "acceptable" message is important or the delivery of message to another person does really happens. You better decline it and correct them in a good manner with fact, not with your imagination or whatever. This is to avoid the spreading of false message.