" I don't speak doesn't mean I'm stupid " I believe that this is a very common quote among the Chinese.
The quote is simple to understand, but difficult to implement it in our life. This is especially important when you are interacting with someone.
When someone is speaking, the content may not be the 100% true and not that really important, you can choose to decline what he says and correct him or not. Yet, correcting other persons' mistake in a good manner is another story, which it is actually requires some skills in order to avoid conflict. Not declining guarantees peace between you and the speaker. If what he says is still acceptable, better don't decline it. You probably don't want to take risk even you are good in interacting with others.
However, if the false message, or so called "acceptable" message is important or the delivery of message to another person does really happens. You better decline it and correct them in a good manner with fact, not with your imagination or whatever. This is to avoid the spreading of false message.
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Friday, October 15, 2010
[Lucky Draw Competition] Stand a chance to win the hot items in the town !!!
Stand a chance to win the hot items in the town !!
go http://www.facebook.com/CIMBMalaysia?v=app_127982550583310
1. Choose the 2 items you like the most (ex. IPHONE AND HTC DESIRE), next
2. Like the group, next
3. Enter your handphone number, next
4. Scroll down and there is a link beside 'Share link', copy the link and send to me via one of the methods mentioned below, I need the link.
example of the link: http://apps.facebook.com/cimbtoogoodtobetrue/receiving.php?h1=9520c593b732641359c84edbf0258755&h2=6b440cd1bcf3d16b57dc7d43901fcbcc&sid=xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Methods:
1. e-mail to hengchuen@live.com
2. send a message to www.facebook.com/hengchuen (recommended for facebook user)
3. message me in msn messenger if you will to add me as your friend in msn
Will only call you if you won the contest! Do not worry about spams.
You will have a chance of winning the 2 items you choose.
go http://www.facebook.com/CIMBMalaysia?v=app_127982550583310
1. Choose the 2 items you like the most (ex. IPHONE AND HTC DESIRE), next
2. Like the group, next
3. Enter your handphone number, next
4. Scroll down and there is a link beside 'Share link', copy the link and send to me via one of the methods mentioned below, I need the link.
example of the link: http://apps.facebook.com/cimbtoogoodtobetrue/receiving.php?h1=9520c593b732641359c84edbf0258755&h2=6b440cd1bcf3d16b57dc7d43901fcbcc&sid=xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Methods:
1. e-mail to hengchuen@live.com
2. send a message to www.facebook.com/hengchuen (recommended for facebook user)
3. message me in msn messenger if you will to add me as your friend in msn
Will only call you if you won the contest! Do not worry about spams.
You will have a chance of winning the 2 items you choose.
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